We are delighted to hear that you are considering confirmation in the Church of England.
The following Questions & Answers may help you to understand the service, but the vicar will be pleased to answer any other questions you may have. Please contact Alan Everett (or phone 020 7249 2627).
What is confirmation?
Confirmation is the point at which you take responsibility for the baptism vows made for you when you were a child. The bishop then prays that you will be confirmed with the Holy Spirit. He will lay hands on your head, and anoint you with holy oil. These two actions show that you have been set apart by God, to follow in the Way of Jesus Christ. Like baptism, confirmation is a sacrament – a sign of God’s grace.
What baptism vows?
To turn away from sin and evil, and towards Christ.
What happens if I haven’t already been baptised (‘christened’)?
You will be baptised a week or two before the confirmation service.
Can I be a Christian without being confirmed?
Yes, but confirmation allows you to receive holy communion – a time of special closeness to God.
How old do I have to be to be confirmed?
By the autumn, you have to be in Year 6, or older. This is the age at which we think that you are old enough to make this important decision for yourself. Of course, many adults are also confirmed.
What happens if I am not sure?
Talk to your parents, friends or Alan. If you are still not sure, it may be best to wait. Sometimes people find answers to their questions by doing the course.
Is there any preparation for confirmation?
Yes, there are weekly meetings beforehand. Young people and adults meet separately, and both courses usually last 6-7 weeks.
When are confirmation services?
They are usually held once a year on a Sunday in the middle of November. The date for the 2009 Confirmation service is 15th November.
By when do I have to decide?
Forms will be available in church from July, and must be returned to Alan by mid September.
